A bit of advice needed

[M77XNE]

A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol

[Captain Jack]

Not sure if im allowed in here.................................
...................................... *puts on Pink Ladies jacket*..............................sorted

Yes say thanks but no.......easy as that, shouldn't feel guilty,just not gonna happen

[M77XNE]

I will let you post, you have the jacket, and long hair - it's fine! lol

I can't just say that, I'd feel too guilty.

Maybe something like, "I'm flattered but bog off?!!" lol - well maybe not like that, gurrr I dunno!

[Captain Jack]

Yes thanks hahahaha..................somewhere on here i get told im cap'n jack's long lost brother!!!

ok maybe not that harsh..........................................( just finished work, still very argumentative)

Just say so, you don't need to sugar coat it. N he should respect you for that

I'M SUCH A GROWN UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! when did that happen?!?!?!

[darrenzs]

Marcus is right Max, it's best to be polite but firm.

'I'm really flatered you have asked me out for a drink......(name) but I'd rather we just remained friends?????????

Any good???

[dressur]

A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol

Bombard him with text messages, telling him how amazingly excited you are, and how you can't wait to see him, and what high hopes you have for the future - then mention babies!

[M77XNE]

I think he actually already has a bambino!! EEEK lol

Okay, I will tell him! lol

Thanks for the advice guys

(I'm still dreading it though!!)

[dressur]

Wait til you get to my age - you'll be pathetically grateful for any signs of interest!!

[M77XNE]

Wait til you get to my age - you'll be pathetically grateful for any signs of interest!!

Well I am greatful of interest, however, he is just the WRONG interest i'm looking for! Lol

[Captain Jack]

cheers...that breeds hope for the future then

[Rich]

You could always say that your lover wouldn't approve... If that doesn't work, tell him your lover is a lovely young lady...

Rich

[Dark Knight]

A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol

isla says, be very polite say "your flattered but you remind me of my brother"

[M77XNE]

A guy I know has asked me, via email, if he can take me out for a drink sometime....I'm not interested in him - how can I let him down in a nice and polite way. I feel really guilty, but me no likey! lol

isla says, be very polite say "your flattered but you remind me of my brother"

What a fantastic way of putting it!

I'm stil putting it off, so i might just do it now.

And Rich hun, I have no lover! Lol

[Rich]

... And Rich hun, I have no lover! Lol

Yeah, but does he know that????

Rich

[Dark Knight]

good thinking rich that is a good idea too!!

[M77XNE]

I'm still too scared to do it!! Lol

[Captain Jack]

lol..............................stop being nice, n just get it done girl!

[Captain Jack]

are you wimping out?

[M77XNE]

Urmm, just a wee bit!! lol

Oh well hahah

[Captain Jack]

it's not like he's gonna smack you? or you've thrown f's n C's @ him............just tell him...........Do you need someone to hold your hand?

[Dark Knight]

it's not like he's gonna smack you? or you've thrown f's n C's @ him............just tell him...........Do you need someone to hold your hand?

are you offering..... oh i!!!!

email him back, he asked you out on email thats was wimping out by him anyway

[Captain Jack]

i'll hold your hand! yeah its not really the way id go about it either.

[M77XNE]

It was sweet thought eh? - poor guy!

[Captain Jack]

Not by email!!!!!!!! if he'd asked you out right..............ok, even a note suggests an impish, childlike innocence to it but, NOT EMAIL!!!!!!!!!!

[M77XNE]

okay, not e-mail - fair enough! lol

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